Is it Wrong to Marry a Man for his Money?

Everyone has their own set of criteria when choosing a partner, so that what you look for will clearly depend on your priorities in life. If you want to have children, you probably want someone who is dependable, who is caring and who will contribute financially to your family’s income. If you want to live the high life; travelling all the time; entertaining frequently and residing in a large house, you may prioritise the earning potential of your spouse more than if you just want to live a normal life and raise a family. However, what if your sole reason for marrying a man is because he’s rich?

Most people would probably regard a woman who marries a man solely for his money with disdain. There is an assumption that this kind of woman relies heavily on her looks to get what she wants; never bothers to work; and preys on vulnerable men. However, these men obviously have some idea of what they’re getting into. Of course, if you’re a rich man, then there is a good chance you’re going to attract women who like money. The likelihood is that you will attend certain social functions where these women lurk and you can find yourself drawn in.

Men are probably happy to play along with the idea that these women find them attractive, regardless of whether they do or not. There are obviously instances where women do fall in love with rich men and don’t want them just for their money, but there are also plenty of cases where women’s only goal is to marry a man for his wealth. In today’s society, there is an expectation that women should work, just as men do, though this wasn’t always the case. In the past, it was regarded as more socially acceptable for a woman to stay at home and look after the children and household in general.

It could therefore be argued that there is nothing wrong with a woman marrying a man for his money, as it provides her with security and may give her the opportunity to fulfil a role she enjoys – that of a loyal and supportive wife. Yet, there are those women who just want to enjoy the status of being married to a rich man and having access to his credit cards and bank account, mingling with other rich people and showing off their wealth. If the man is happy with this, then that is fair enough, but not all men are aware of their spouse’s intentions. This is when it is clear that marrying a man for his money is a bit of an ethical dilemma, though seemingly not for those women who just want to be rich!